Beginner’s Guide to Bondage Equipment

Beginners Guild To Bondage

Beginner’s Guide to Bondage Equipment

You’ve seen the film Fifty Shades of Gray and you fancy playing out some of the steamy bondage scenes yourself. Well, you’ve come to the right place! Here’s your definitive guide to the world of bondage for beginners.

The Eye Mask (Blindfold)

This is an excellent piece of equipment for anyone delving into the world of bondage and discipline.

The act of restricting a person’s vision creates an environment where the other senses are heightened, making the person more sensitive to touch, smell and the sound of your voice whispering naughty things in their ears.

You can make your own blindfold out of a scarf or you can buy a purpose designed blindfold like our Scandal Blackout Eye Mask.

Beginner’s Guide to Bondage Equipment

 

The Ball Gag

A ball gag consists of a ball (roughly the size of a snooker ball) that is placed into the mouth and secured with a strap around the head.

Mouth gags, like the ball gag, prevent the person from speaking while forcing their mouth open, heightening the feeling of power and submission. The mouth is one of the most sensual parts of the body and, for many people, filling the mouth with a ball gag is extremely erotic.

Ball gags come in a range of designs to suit different purposes. Some are a solid ball designed to fill the mouth and restrict speaking and swallowing such as the Tickle Me Pink Ball Gag. Other ball gags consist more of a ring-type design meant for keeping the mouth open while allowing objects to be inserted.

Handcuffs and Rope

There are a myriad of options for putting the ‘bondage’ in bondage play from realistic handcuffs like the Sex and Mischief Metal Handcuffs to specially designed rope such as Temptasia Bondage Rope and tape such at the Ouch Non-Sticky Bondage Tape. This is special tape that won’t leave any sticky residue and isn’t painful to remove. Learning how to tie bondage rope is important. Check out this great web site all about bondage rope tying https://www.theduchy.com/home/

Beginner’s Guide to Bondage Equipment

Whips, Paddles and Ticklers

Whatever shall you do with your partner now they are all tied up and at your mercy? Well, why not try some light discipline? For beginners, it’s advisable that you ease your way into discipline play. Make sure you have a mutual agreement around the boundaries for this type of play. Trust is very important so it’s best if you know the other person well. Bondage play is never a good idea on a one-night stand. Pick an easy to remember safe word that means ‘slow down’ ‘ease up’ or ‘stop’. It’s important that you stay away from organs like the kidneys in the lower back, or particularly vulnerable body parts such as eyes and genitals when using these tools without experience.

Whips come in a range of sizes and materials. For beginners, we recommend the Sex and Mischief Whip and Tickle or anything in suede or soft leather.

Paddles come in a dizzying array of styles and materials. For beginners, we recommend anything fairly broad with a fur cover for more gentle stingless paddling such as the Sex and Michief Enchanted Heart Paddle.

Ticklers can deliver exquisite sensations in all those erogenous zones or they can send your partner into a fit of giggles. When combined with a well placed slap with a paddle to get those nerves tingling, ticklers can heighten the sensation a great deal. We recommend the Sex and Mischief Feather Tickler.

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